ABOUT ME:

  • 22 years old

  • White

  • Trans nonbinary man (TME)

  • He/Him only (if you use something else i consider it misgendering)

  • Heteroromantic asexual

  • In a relationship with @clairustar💖💙💕

  • Not neurotypical

  • I'm italian and i live in Italy

  • Can speak english, italian, german and spanish

  • You can call me Eula or Angelo (i'd rather ppl not use my url as if it were my name, no fancy reasons i just find it weird. Tagging is fine tho.)

  • Things you can call me: bro, dude, man, guy, bestie, king. No female nouns, no "boy" (i'm literally 23 like. i dont need to be infantilized) and if i don't know you i prefer no "sir". You can call me queer or lgbt or enby i literally don't care.

  • Virgo, birthday is on august 24

MY STANCES

  • Cishet is a term created by and for trans het people to talk about how we experience being straight in a different way from our oppressors. If you’re not transhet and you misuse the term feel free to fuck off.

  • You must say CISHET instead of straight when you’re talking about the oppressors of lgbt+ people. Straight trans people exist and we’re fucking sick of being forgotten and erased and lumped with the people who kill us. Yes this counts if you’re trans too.

  • On paper i'm an inclus because i do firmly believe all ace/aro people to be lgbt+ and same for other identities on the aspectrum but i don't associate with the inclusionist community for personal reasons (mainly the transmisogyny and the proshippers).

  • Asexuality can mean no sexual attraction OR attraction to no gender.

  • Pansexuality is a valid identity and so are polysexual, omnisexual and all the other mspec identities. They do no harm to anyone and if you believe they do you’ve never had a real problem in your life and i suggest you go outside.

  • Saying that you’re skeptical of pan people because the label has transphobic roots is nothing but idiotic hypochrisy and performative allyship because all orientations have transphobic roots and the majority of people of every orientation exclude trans people of their dating pool entirely. Check your own transphobia instead of finding a scapegoat.

  • Bi means attraction to more than one gender and is not trans nor nonbinary exclusive.

  • Nonbinary people can want their gender to be recognized as a “third” gender or to have their gender respected in the same way as binary ones.

  • Nonbinary people have the right not to want gay/straight people to erase their gender and treat them as women/men lite. It is not homophobic of them and they deserve to be respected.

  • Nonbinary identities of all kind are valid yes even the xenogender and the mogai ones they literally harm no one and no they aren’t the cause for global transphobia, again if you think they are please go outside.

  • Getting angry at mogai kids on the internet and posting nonstop about how ace/pan/nonbinary people harm the community is pathetic to say the least when TERFs, transmeds and cishets still fucking exist and are literally killing us as we speak, find a real struggle to get mad at.

  • Queer is an identity and a safety tactic for many trans people. You have the right not to want to be called that. You do not have the right to police those who use it. And you especially do not have the right to ask for queer people to censor their identity for your comfort.

  • Literally fuck off if you pretend to care about “trauma victims” only when it’s about the usage of queer but have other slurs in your url/header/plain sight because you clearly can’t be bothered to give two fucks about trauma victims.

  • Everyone can use the pronoun they want no matter gender and/or orientation.

  • Nondysphoric trans people are still trans. Transtrenders dont exist. No one is trans to “get attention” because the only attention we receive puts our life in danger.

  • Truscum and TERFs lives don’t matter they never have and never will.

  • Tucute caricatures further transphobia and make it harder for all trans people.

  • If you get angry at T4T and think they’re oppressing your right to date cis people turn off ur phone and shut up lmao.

  • Not dating people because they’re trans is transphobic.

  • Not dating people because they’re bi is biphobic.

  • Trans het people are not in the position of power to systemicly oppress cis lgbs as we are still considered gay by society and face literally all struggles faced by cis lgbs+transphobia.

  • Cis lgbs however oppress trans het people on the basis of being cisgender.

  • Cis people who talk over trans people on trans issues die by my hands challenge.

  • As i'm neither intersex nor polyamorous i'm not gonna have a stance on whether these two things make you inherently lgbt+ or not. It's just not my place to speak.

  • I do not have anything against intersex/polyam ppl considering themselves lgbt+ though, it's something that literally affects no one therefore i see no issues with it.

  • Also since i'm neither gay nor bi i won't take a stance on the whole "mspec gays" discourse either. I will just say that people identifying as that don't pose that much of a threat to anyone considering that cishet homophobes/TERFs exist and literally nobody irl cares about this.

  • Blackwashing doesn’t exist because reverse racism doesn’t exist.

  • Misandry, cisphobia and heterophobia also don’t exist.

  • Italians aren’t a race and they aren’t people of color.

  • Maps/nomaps are pedophiles and deserve to die point blank.

  • Minor/adult relationships are pedophilic and not to be romanticized but demonized and condemned only.

  • Same goes for incestuos/abusive relationships.

  • Yes you can write about the aforementioned topics if you make it clear to paint them as negative and harmful, no you cannot romanticize/sexualize them for your otp.

  • (Big)age gaps between adults are not pedophilic but they can still be abusive more often than not.

  • DDLG/MDLB/rape/raceplay are not kinks. If you get off to that go see a therapist. Coping is not an excuse.

  • Proshippers fuck off you are NOT safe here.

  • Fiction affects reality.

  • Romanticization of serial killers or organized crime (like mafia) is disgusting.

  • Fujoshis are inherently homophobic and cause real harm to mlm in real life.

  • Pro-choice.

  • Nazis and fascists deserve death.

DO NOT INTERACT IF:

  • Terf/swerf/twerf

  • Transphobic of any kind (includes cis people who get into trans discourse, cis battleaxe bis, cis panphobes in general etc.)

  • Transmisogynists (includes all TME people who: believe in transmisandry/transandrophobia; think TERFs go after TME trans people; think TERFs have something to do with ace discourse; think TMEs can reclaim the t slurs or femb*y; think TMEs can call themselves trans women, trans lesbians or TMA.)

  • Truscum

  • Anti mogai

  • Ace/aro exclusionist

  • Queerphobe

  • Anti anti/Proshipper/Fujoshi/AO3 defender

  • Fatphobe

  • Map/nomap/pedophile

  • Antiblack, racist, white supremacist, "all lives matter"/"blue lives matter" supporter

  • Centrist

  • Pro-life, pro-gun

  • Radical vegans

  • Anti he/him lesbians or she/her gays

  • Cis people can interact/follow as long as you don't match the above criteria i'm good

  • Minors can follow/interact, just blacklist the #nsfw tag for occasional 18+ jokes/memes

INTERESTS

feel free to tag in me in anything about:

  • Soul Eater (main hyperfixation and special interest)

  • Ace Attorney

  • Dragon Ball

  • Naruto

  • Fire Force / Enen no shoubotai

  • Vocaloid

  • Death Note

  • The way of the househusband

  • Marine biology

  • Pokemon

  • Studio Ghibli

  • Total Drama

  • Alien